You Are Not Alone

Lately, a huge part of our conversations at church have been about family. Not just our closest relatives, the ones we grew up with or share meals with, but also the spiritual family that God has placed us in. The Church, the body of Christ, is much more than a building or an organization; it is a family designed by God to support us, encourage us, and walk with us through every season of life.

Maybe your closest relatives aren’t around. Maybe you’ve felt isolated, disconnected, or even abandoned at times. But here’s the beautiful truth: God sees every one of our needs and fills the empty spaces in our hearts. Even when our own relatives are not present for whatever reason, God surrounds us with people to do life with—a spiritual family.

From the very beginning, family has been central to God’s design. We see it in Genesis with Adam and Eve, and throughout the Bible, countless stories highlight the importance of the family unit. It is through family, both biological and spiritual, that God strengthens us and helps us navigate trials and difficult times.

And because of its importance, the enemy constantly attacks it. We see it everywhere: in our children’s education, in the media we consume, and in the increasing pressure to isolate ourselves rather than engage in meaningful relationships. The enemy knows that if he can divide families, he can weaken communities, churches, and even our faith.

But here’s what I want you to remember: You are not alone.

The Church is not just a place we go to on Sundays—it’s a home. It’s a family. And when we become part of a spiritual family, something shifts. We move beyond just our personal desires and begin to see the needs of others. God expands our hearts, strengthens our understanding, and equips us to love and serve. Being part of a family, whether by blood or by faith, transforms us.

What the Bible Says About Family

If we look at Scripture, we find four powerful truths about God’s design for family:

1. God Designed Family as the Foundation of Society
   Genesis 2:24 – "Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh."
   Marriage and family were God’s idea from the beginning. They are the foundation of relationships and community.
2. Family Reflects God’s Relationship with His People
   2 Corinthians 6:18 – "I will be a Father to you, and you shall be My sons and daughters, says the Lord Almighty."
   God calls us His children. He is not distant—He is a close, loving Father.
3. Family Is a Place of Love and Unity
   Colossians 3:13-14 – "Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity."
   Family is not about perfection; it is about grace, forgiveness, and love that holds us together.
4. Families Are Called to Serve the Lord Together
   Joshua 24:15 – "But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord."
   A family that follows God builds a strong foundation—one that stands through any storm.

Take the Next Step

In a world that is constantly trying to tear families apart—both at home and in the church—I want to remind you that you don’t have to do life alone. Maybe you’ve been feeling the urge to visit a church, but you’ve been putting it off. Maybe you long for connection but don’t know where to start.

Here’s my challenge for you: Take a step today.

Google that church you’ve been thinking about. Search for a local church on Instagram. And if you don’t know where to go, let me make it simple—I’m personally inviting you to Northplace Garland. I’ll even save a seat for you.

Don’t miss the opportunity to experience life-changing relationships, the support, and the purpose that being part of a spiritual family brings. God is in control, and if you ask Him, He will lead you to the right place.

You are loved. You are seen. And you belong.

Hope to see you soon!